"Games are the way we keep romance alive," says Helen Fisher, Ph D, author of . Playing hard-to-get or leaving a little to the imagination allows the woman to be wooed and appreciated and the man to be challenged and intrigued." What makes these courtship contact sports so appealing is that there are no losers and they pave the way to building a relationship that's humming with excitement. Play these five games with him and we promise you'll score.Absence creates anticipation and a feeling of "If I don't see her now, I'll die." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of .I want very much for you to have a really great loving relationship, but I sure don’t want you hurt by a game player. I have this guy friend who would email daily and tell me everything that’s going on and then he just stopped.
"You think you're bonding, but he thinks you're an open book to everyone." What you censor — about your exes, family, friends, even your schedule — can be more powerful than what you reveal.This will do one of two things: it will either challenge them to stop the games with you and move on to someone else, or they’ll quit not only messing with your head, but also with your heart. Someone once said, A liar will first lie to himself before lying to others.Your willingness to lovingly, but firmly, confront someone on what they have clearly been doing may help them to stop a game they may not even know their playing.Remember a lot of guys act tough and macho, but inside they also are very much afraid of rejection. You may want to help each other out by making a simple suggestion.You might say something like this: You know, you and I have been talking to each other for a while and I’m a little confused. This allows you to talk about it in a non-threatening way.He is the founder of Dawson Mc Allister Association and The Hope Line and host of the national radio program Dawson Mc Allister Live, which is aired on Sunday nights.