There are lots of folks out there who hate fat people.
But the truth is, fat is one of those defining features that can’t really be ignored.
Maybe it’s not socially ‘in’ right now, but the fact of the matter is, PLENTY of guys like fat girls.
But if you think that’s bad, try being the fat girlfriend.
The vitriol some people have for others based purely on body size can be quite frightening.
Yet I forgot the opinion that mattered most—my opinion of myself.
I mentioned that most of us have had bad experiences, being the ‘secret’ lover, not ever getting to meet a guy’s friends, and it’s really quite painfully true.
You wouldn’t message a thin girl and say ‘I think you’re hot, I’m really attracted to skinny girls’, would you?
So we can tend to be a little leery when a guy professes interest.